Simple Breathing Techniques to Ease Your Nervous System
- michelleslaterlpc
- Sep 15
- 3 min read

A Moment to Breathe
Breathing is one of the simplest, most accessible tools for calming your nervous system and supporting emotional balance. By intentionally engaging the breath, you can shift your body from tension or overwhelm into focus, calm, and presence. Here are several effective techniques to try.
Diaphragmatic Breathing (Belly Breathing)
Step-by-step:
Place one hand on your belly, one on your chest.
Inhale slowly through your nose, letting your belly rise.
Exhale slowly through your mouth, letting your belly fall.
Repeat for 1–2 minutes.
What it is: A foundational breathing technique that engages the diaphragm to support full, deep breaths.
How it works: Using the diaphragm stimulates the relaxation response, slowing heart rate and reducing tension.
Why it helps: Shifts the body from alertness to calm, improving focus, emotional balance, and overall nervous system regulation.
Box Breathing (4-4-4-4)
Step-by-step:
Inhale through your nose for 4 counts.
Hold for 4 counts.
Exhale through your mouth for 4 counts.
Hold for 4 counts.
Repeat for 3–5 rounds.
What it is: A structured, rhythmic breathing technique with equal inhale, hold, exhale, and hold phases.
How it works: The structured holds and counts slow the heart rate and bring awareness to the breath.
Why it helps: Provides grounding, focus, and calm during moments of stress or agitation.
4-7-8 Breathing
Step-by-step:
Inhale through your nose for 4 counts.
Hold for 7 counts.
Exhale slowly through your mouth for 8 counts.
Repeat 3–4 times.
What it is: A breathing pattern emphasizing a long exhale compared with the inhale.
How it works: Extending the exhale activates the parasympathetic nervous system (“rest and digest” response).
Why it helps: Eases racing thoughts, promotes relaxation, and can improve sleep quality.
Resonance Breathing (Coherent Breathing)
Step-by-step:
Sit or lie comfortably.
Inhale gently through your nose for 5–6 seconds.
Exhale slowly through your nose or mouth for 5–6 seconds.
Continue for several minutes.
What it is: A smooth, rhythmic technique that focuses on a steady inhale-exhale rhythm without holds.
How it works: Breathing at about 5–6 seconds per inhale and exhale promotes heart–brain coherence and balances the nervous system.
Why it helps: Encourages long-term relaxation, improves emotional resilience, and supports overall nervous system regulation.
Humming Exhale (Bee Breath)
Step-by-step:
Inhale gently through your nose.
Exhale with a low humming sound, lips closed.
Focus on the vibration in your chest, face, or head.
What it is: A gentle breathing technique with a humming exhale that stimulates body awareness.
How it works: The vibration stimulates the vagus nerve, signaling safety and calm to the nervous system.
Why it helps: Soothes nerves and helps the body feel calm and centered.
Hand-on-Heart Breathing
Step-by-step:
Place one hand on your heart, one on your belly.
Inhale deeply, noticing your belly rise.
Exhale slowly, feeling warmth under your hand on your chest.
What it is: A somatic breathing practice that combines touch with mindful breathing.
How it works: Focusing on physical sensations anchors awareness and provides comfort to the nervous system.
Why it helps: Helps regulate emotions, providing grounding and reassurance during fear, sadness, or stress.
Ocean Breath (Ujjayi Breath)
Step-by-step:
Inhale through your nose.
Exhale through your nose while slightly constricting the throat (like fogging a mirror, mouth closed).
Continue for 1–3 minutes.
What it is: A rhythmic breathing technique with a gentle, ocean-like sound.
How it works: The subtle constriction creates a calming rhythm, helping the body and mind synchronize.
Why it helps: Eases restlessness, encourages mindful presence, and supports focus and calm.
💡Tip: Try different techniques to see which feel most grounding. Even a few minutes of mindful breathing can help your body move from tension or overwhelm into calm, focus, and emotional balance.
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